sex with my best friend
Hi Cathy – Believe it or not this is a pretty common dream. It’s almost as if we are attracted to our friend, who happens to be of the same sex, and then the dream changes to accomodate our rational objection to the fact that our friend is the same sex as we are. So […]
internet lover wants to kill me
I am a 16 year old girl from New Jersey I met an 18 year old guy in a chat room. He doesn’t know my last name, address, or any other personal information about me other than my phone number, which is unlisted (so there’s no way he could get that information) We do however […]
sex other than my husband
Hi Anonymous – Your dreams are fairly normal for someone of your background. You have been with one person for 7 years and appear to be feeling the “5-7 year marriage itch.” Also, I am curious if you had many partners prior to meeting your husband. If not – you may be looking back and […]
dead boyfriend
I have recently been torn about whether or not to break up with my boyfriend. I’ve been feeling like I need more space to have fun and do whatever I want (see other people). But I do love him, and he is very sweet. In my dream I was somewhere and somebody got a phone […]
sex on my mind
Hi Mandy – I think the sliding board is symbolic of the act of making love. In the dream you are sliding on it repeatedly – up and down. Then suddenly your boyfriend appears and puts on a display of affection. And soon enough you two are on your bed together in a romantic […]
about to die
My daughter Kirsty is experiencing dreams from which she awakens and then starts worrying herself silly. In real life she is in an on-again off-again relationship with a guy. She really cares for him and wants a long-term relationship, but he only wants a friendship. Then, when she decides to break it off, he rings […]
gone fishing!
I have recurring dreams recently. In one I am fishing, in a stream or lake. Sometimes I catch really big fish. I cannot remember much else about the dream. The other recurring dream is about being chased by a large black bear. So far it has not caught and attacked me, but I wake up […]
car crash
For the last couple of days I have been having dreams about getting into a car accident. After that part of the dream is over, I end up talking to other men right in front of my fiancé. Ever since I’ve been having those dreams, we haven’t been talking. Can you tell me what these […]
true love
I dreamed once of the girl I loved and she refused my love…..the dream was: She was sitting beside me in my car and it was raining. I found everything she hold is mine; my mug, my pin, my Walkman, and even my bag. Then the car seemed to be full of rain water and […]
swept away
I have had dreams with former lovers. A few years ago, my first love used to figure prominently in these dreams. Recently, it has been my second love. The dreams basically are the same. I see them and try to meet up with them. It takes a few dreams until I actually talk to them. […]
staying power
Thirteen months ago, circumstances brought me home to my parents, away from my friends and work. It also created a lot of stress in my life, creating a traumatic situation. All this turmoil led to the end of my 11-month romance. Since then, I dream of my ex-boyfriend constantly (he left me, so this makes […]
rejected!
Hi Alice— I know your dreams of your ex are disturbing, but they really are nothing to feel guilty about! Instead, they reflect an unmistakable surge of your self-esteem—and that is cause for a well-deserved pat on the back! Here’s why: In the past, your dreams of your old boyfriend always showed you in a […]