never had sex
Dear Confused – It’s natural for young women who haven’t had sex to dream that they are pregnant. Usually your body is simply thinking ahead to that day when, if you decide to have children, you will start carrying a baby inside you. It’s natural to wonder what it will be like; how you will […]
heartfelt trip
First I should tell you that I am European, or the dream won’t make sense. I live in the Netherlands, although I am English. I recently met a really sweet American girl who lives here too, and things are progressing slowly, but I think well. In my dream I am getting on this huge plane […]
point of view
I had a dream that greatly effected my world for a little while. At the time, my husband was working swing shift, and I was working day. We never saw each other, and I was getting very lonely. Anyway, I started to get a crush on a guy at work. One night I had a […]
hanging on
Today I woke up from an afternoon nap after dreaming that I was hanging onto a ledge outside of a window. There were people inside trying to pull me in, but they weren’t able to before I woke up. Also, I wasn’t myself. I think I was a character on the soap opera that I […]
rundown castle
I dreamed that I was in an old, run-down medieval castle being chased by my husband. My husband was in a rage, and was trying to kill me and a large group of children that I was with. Some of the children were ours, but there were others in the group, too, that I don’t […]
husband in church
Hi Aalease— Your dream is easy to figure out. What you’re going to do about it — once you understand it — is a much harder question. You have been married for 2.5 years, unhappily. During this time you have been “seeing” another man, and it’s clear from your dream that your feelings for him […]
newlywed
I recently have been dreaming about men I do not know or recognize who adore me. They tell me over and over again how much they love me. This is quite disturbing to me, especially since I am a newlywed. Why all these men I don’t know? –Debbie, Age 40, Vancouver, BC, CANADA For the […]
sweet 16
Hi Jenny— It is a touching story of lost romance, and I do not wish in any measure to diminish the possibility that you and this man may indeed some day meet and have a relationship—and that you may be communicating through your dreams. If this is indeed the case, then your story is even […]
my boss
I have been having dreams about my boss lately. I have worked with him for 4 years and consider him more of a friend than a boss. He lost his son in a car accident this past summer and his father about a month ago. I work within a small company where most co-workers are […]
trust
I am a woman currently living in Minneapolis – but 7 months ago was living in the mountains of Colorado. I have recently gotten seriously involved with a man – I think I’m in love for the first time in years. I had a frightening dream last night. I was in the back seat of […]
sex with my boss!
Hi Ann— It’s always a little strange when we dream about sex with a co-worker. Will we ever look at them in the same way? Does it mean we really are attracted to them, or they to us? And if we do admit to an attraction, isn’t this a dangerous blurring of boundaries in our […]
new lover!
I have recently started a new relationship with a wonderful man. The other night I dreamt that he and another man were chasing me and trying to kill me. First we were running through a tunnel that was filled with water. They caught me, and my boyfriend raped me while the other man watched. Then […]