online cheating
Hi Debbie – Just when you think you’ve put those old demons to rest, they come flying back out of the closet, ready to haunt you again! Before you get too distraught over this dream though (and start kicking him out), a few items included in your report are worth reviewing. First, it’s important to […]
point of view
Hi Anonymous— You may not have understood this dream from an intellectual perspective, but your actions show that you clearly understood its emotional message. During a difficult period in your marriage, your wandering attention threatened to bring you and your husband a great deal of pain. Your dream showed that an affair with a co-worker, […]
pregnant or not pregnant?
Hi Leslie – The great value of dreams in our lives is that they show us feelings and awarenesses that are on our minds – often at a subconscious level. In your case, it sounds like your dreams of “impending motherhood” have taken you a bit by surprise. After all, you’ve only known this guy […]
roadside attraction
Hi Kevin— You may laugh when I tell you this, but bicycles in dreams often are associated with sexual activity. It’s the motion we make while riding them, and the pressure in our genital area! Your friend’s dream shows that she fears you may “ride out of control” and get injured. If she has sensed […]
rundown castle
Hi Debra— We know your dream was disturbing, and it certainly doesn’t paint your husband in a favorable light. In the dream he is angry, chasing you and your children, and apparently trying to kill you. Is your dream a cause for alarm? Violence in dreams is a metaphor for anger and frustration. Murder in […]
sleep talking
Hi Anthony— Most people who dream of extra-partner relationships worry in relative silence and anonymity about their promiscuous minds during dreams. But here you are, betrayed by an unusually active body during sleep! Can there be no privacy?! Sleep-talking is considered a fairly benign, though still uncommon, accompaniment to dreams. Usually our muscles are inhibited […]
staying power
Hi Anonymous – It’s common to want someone back, especially after you feel badly about a breakup. Now that you are back on your feet after a difficult time, your dreams are making you wonder – Are you and your ex are about to get back together? Your dreams appear to be obvious signs that […]
steamy affairs
Hi Anonymous – You describe your sexual liasons as “affairs.” Are you involved with someone right now in a committed, monogamous relationship? If so, I don’t think the dreams really are a good sign. Most people will tell you that when they are happy with a partner in a committed relationship, they rarely, if ever, […]
swept away
Hi Anonymous— Given the circumstances, we understand why these dreams are disturbing: they appear to be indicating a subconscious attraction to former lovers. In real life, however, you actually are aware of the reasons why these relationships did not work then, and would not work now. Accordingly, why the dreams? The clue that your dreams […]
the new me
Hi Anonymous – I think the dead, severed hand may be a relationship in your life right now that you need to liberate yourself from in order to arrive at the future self you so vividly experienced in your dream. The relationship is clinging to you, and you feel comfortable and even sentimentally attached to […]
true love
Hi Ahmed – I think you may still be in love with this girl. Rain in dreams tends to symbolize resolution, and the washing away of old tensions. In the dream she was sitting with you in your car, and everything she held was yours: your mug, your pin, your walkman, even your bag. Isn’t […]
trust
Hi Andrea – I am delighted to learn that you are in love. As we know, though, affairs of the heart are full of risk. (Actually, they’re a bit like cars on windy, mountain roads…) Your dream appears to be a metaphor for the perils of traveling on “love’s highway.” After one of these murderers […]