Your husband represents an aspect of your personality, a commitment between thought and action. He symbolizes something that you have been doing for awhile. When he says that he is with another woman, this indicates that you are no longer commited to that action. In other words, you have changed your mind as to why you are doing something. Look over your life and see where you have been doing something that, over time, has lost it's desire or meaning. Sometimes we start a ritual or ceromomial gesture...maybe a project, and over time we slowly change our mind about it but struggle to come to terms with it. I hope this helps in some way. I'm sorry for your loss. God Bless.