Fires in dreams are all about urgency and transition. Death in dreams is all about change and transition. Gardens are symbols of renewal and rebirth. Houses in dreams are symbols of the self. What more perfect symbol for your kids than a playhouse? Each symbol in your dream is apt for a mom on the verge of moving her family.
How you feel IN the dream reflects how you feel about it. Feelings in dreams are never disguised so how you feel IN your dream is how you really feel about its subject in your waking life at the time you had the dream. In your dream, you have feelings of concern (parental anxiety), confusion, anger and ultimately hope. Sound like the range of emotions you have experienced recently, especially regarding your move?
Your dream reveals your concern about the impact that the move will have on your kids. Your feelings are strong and eloquently express what if feels like to "uproot" your kids. The good news is that your dream ends happily with the rebirth of your child... a symbol of hope.
These are normal feelings. The message for you... check in with your kids often and keep them close so that they make the transition well, as you know in your heart they will. By doing so, you will be less anxious. A good way to "take their emotional temperature" is to ask them about their dreams. Kids love to talk about their dreams. You can learn a lot, not only about what's on their mind, but how they are doing emotionally.
For more information about your dream's symbols, here are some links to their definitions:
fire
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death
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garden
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house
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Have a safe move!