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11 years 7 months ago #1 by Viper21

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  • Hi. This is my first time on this website, and need help trying to figuring out what my dream means. I woke up this morning, and was just confused what my dream was about. I'll explain my situation before telling about my dream.
    I'm 14, and asked out this girl(Raven) at the end of April. Turns out she can't date until she's 16. We went to a middle school graduation dance together. We went a to homecoming a couple weeks ago, and now just waiting for her to turn 16 in a year and 5 months. I made a promise to myself not to date any girls until she turned 16. I met another girl(Jamie) at the beginning of the school year, and I just moved to her area, but still in the same county. She comes to me with BIG open arms, and is a really good friend. All three of us go to the same school.
    THE DREAM: I don't how the dream started. Jamie was in bed, and I'm standing beside it. She ask me to "sleep" with her. Suddenly I'm mad and confused cuz Jamie is a great girl but I like Raven. That's the last thing I remember of the dream is being mad and confused. I woke up today with my heart pounding.
    After footbal practice I've been looking up websites on how dreams affect your life, and found this site. Is my dream trying tell me something or warn me or something? (Please help tell me what my dream is telling me)

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    11 years 7 months ago - 11 years 7 months ago #2 by pammap

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  • The first thing you need to understand is that dreams are expressions of your feelings about your waking life at the time of the dream.

    Sex in dreams can be literal or symbolic. Here's a link to help you determine which is the case in this dream: dreamdoctor.com/dream-dictionary/definitions/sex.html

    Based on the waking life background you provided (thanks for that!), the sex in your dream with Jamie could be a bit of both... symbolic and literal. Symbolically, the "chemistry" you have with Jamie is expressed by your intimacy with her in the dream.

    That being said, you are a 14 year old young man whose libido has probably kicked in... so your dream is probably also a reflection of your sexual desire in general. Jamie probably became the object of that desire in your dream because you know that she comes to you with "BIG open arms."

    Feelings in dreams are never disguised. How you feel IN a dream is how you feel about its subject in your waking life. You feel mad and confused IN the dream after you are with Jamie, because of Raven; she is that important to you. You get angry at yourself because you allowed your sexual desires to get the best of you, and you are confused because you can't understand why you would do that or let it happen. The dream illustrates how terribly you would feel if you did. That's a pretty strong endorsement of your feelings for Raven and the integrity you want to bring to the relationship.

    Keep tracking your dreams, because they will always let you know how you are feeling about your romantic life and everything else that is important to you.

    Good luck!

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    11 years 7 months ago #3 by Viper21

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  • All that info from a dream. Well thanks for the help.:)

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