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13 years 5 months ago #1 by oohcrayons

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    Can you help me interpret this dream?

    Okay so it starts out at the water park where I work. I'm watching some of my coworkers, one of them is very attractive in my opinion. I thought he was cute. So I see him, and I get this bold feeling, so I decide I'm going to go up and kiss him. He's quite a distance away, so I run toward him. But he runs away, and he's just out of reach but I can't catch up to him. So I decide it isn't worth it, and my dream switches over to where I'm in a store like Hallmark. I see another guy I work with, but I can't stand. (In real life he's manipulative, a liar, a cheater, a player, and most girls don't even find him that attractive) Like I won't even talk to him that's how bad it is. But anyway, in this store, we're talking in hushed voices, when I decide I'm going to hug him. I'm afraid he's going to reject me, but that bold feeling comes back and I hug him. In my dream, I'm surprised, he hugs back, and he holds me tighter. He's warm and he smells good, and I feel a sense of happiness and completeness when he holds me. He stops when people walk by, I don't know why, but when they're gone, he holds me again. I just felt so comfortable and happy in that moment of my dream, I almost cried. It all felt so real too.

    Why would I hug this guy if I cannot stand him?

    I'll explain my relationship with both:
    1st guy: He's a couple years older than me, I'm quiet at work so I don't really talk to him that much. And even though we don't talk like at all, he'll be friendly toward me on good days. But I think he gets annoyed because I don't talk. He's VERY attractive and smart. He parties alot, and I think we get on each others nerves even though we don't talk. In the dream it's almost like I shrugged him off.

    2nd guy: I don't work with him as often as the 1st guy, but when I met him, I thought he was cute. After a day though, I realized that he was manipulative and a liar. He's taken advantage of me at work because I'm so quiet. He tries to flirt with all the girls at the pool, to get his way, but he quit with me, because I think he realizes it doesn't work. When we do talk I'm very curt with hum, just because I don't trust him. But he still looks at me from time to time.

    I just don't understand why I dreampt about these two guys when I have other guy friends that treat me better than these two do. When I hugged the second guy I felt so complete, I consider it one of the best dreams I have ever had, even if I can't stand him. I felt so relieved when I hugged him.

    I don't have a boyfriend, typically because I choose not to, I want to do my own thing right now.

    I don't really let people touch me that often, unless we're close, because I have anxiety. I like hugs though. (:

    I'm pretty, not like drop dead gorgeous, but like others consider me attractive.

    What does this all mean? :S

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    13 years 5 months ago #2 by mcreekr

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  • Replied by mcreekr on topic Re: Dream about hugging?
    In your dream, these guys each represent a different, particular aspect of your personality. The way you see them reflects that part of yourself that the dream is dealing with. The first guy is ab action or behavior that you would like to have but can't quite get your mind to play along. The other guy is an action or behavior that, while you were once reluctant to do, you find that it serves a purpose and gives you a feeling of security. Your anxiety can very well be the cause for this. But look at your life and see how you would like to have the freedom to do certain things but instead, you have to spin, justify, make excuses for, having to act differently. My daughter has anxiety, I've seen her go through the same thing. She's doing better. Hang in there, you will too. God bless.

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    13 years 5 months ago #3 by oohcrayons

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    Thank you so much! That makes total sense to me. I feel like you nailed it! Thank you so much!

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