ANY ADVICE PLEASE ...

had a dream that my ex boyfriend was dropping my clothes off to my home, he came the front way and no one ever uses the front door .??

He came & I had concussion a few weeks ago through falling ( this is real )
And when he got to the door my head starting to hurt and He said are you ok and I said no my head hurts and I've got concussion .., he asked me if I was seeing someone and I said no, after talking a while he told me he's seeing someone else and walked away .. It made me feel a bit angry or uncomfortable ..


I really don't understand what my emotions are ?

This was a not good or suited relationship and I ended things before I would of been depressed and VERY unhappy, he did treat me badly and left me in debt ..

It's the first dream I've had of him & 9 months . ???

Just don't figure it out ?

Thanks x

Here are links on this website to the meanings of the key symbols in your dream:

ex-lover: dreamdoctor.com/component/dreams/?contro...&task=details&id=726 (also, see the video on the homepage)
door: dreamdoctor.com/component/dreams/?contro...task=details&id=2080
clothing: dreamdoctor.com/component/dreams/?contro...&task=details&id=493
cheated on: dreamdoctor.com/component/dreams/?contro...&task=details&id=438

Feelings are never disguised in dreams, so how you feel IN your dream is how you feel about its subject in your waking life. In your dream you felt angry and uncomfortable. That's how you feel about the subject of your dream... your ex.

Your dreams are YOU talking to you about how you feel about what's important to you. They are symbolic expressions of your feelings about your waking life at the time of the dream.

In the dream, your ex drops of your clothes through the front door. Doors are symbols of transition (the end of the relationship) and clothing is a reflection of your feelings about your status, which is someone who has been "dropped" as a girlfriend. Your head hurting in the dream is likely to an example of "dream incorporation"... where an actual event that is occurring in your body becomes included into the story-line of a dream due to your concussion. As for the moment, where your ex tells you that he is seeing someone else, that is symbolic of your sense that he has moved on and is focused elsewhere. It isn't psychic, as if you know that for sure. It's just a feeling you have.

As for why it took you 9 months to dream about him, keep in mind that we all dream about 90 minutes a night. It is possible that you have had other dreams about him, but not recalled them. This dream may be reflective of the fact that your romantic life (or lack thereof?) was on your mind, which could have been triggered by any number of things including something that reminded you of him or a movie. It could also be reflective of waning feelings of self-worth, perhaps due to the absence of a romantic interest and/or your concussion, which doesn't make you feel at your best.

The dream reflects your feelings that you know it's over and are still angry and uncomfortable about it. In situations like this, the best remedy is often to move forward, be social, and enjoy life.

Hope that helps!

The fact that your ex used a door that no one else uses shows how unpredictable he was. You're clothes are a part of you that you were getting back. Seems as though he has led you on believing he was something he never was and with him wanting to know your relationship status before he told you his, then just walked off shows your realization how he would go out of his way to bring you down so he could feel better about himself.