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Ex-Boyfriend in my dream?! I dont get it....

10 years 10 months ago #1 by cheersy85

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  • I would love to get someone's input on my dream I recently had. Its been bothering me and staying on my mind ever since.......

    I had a dream that i was with my current boyfriend, we were doing something that i cant quite remember...but i know he was there. And then it all changed and my ex boyfriend from 5 years ago was in it. We were walking around this house that seemed to have been a family member's (it was either his or my family, not sure, but we were comfortable there and supposed to be there). We were walking around and holding hands and kissing. It was oddly perfect. I felt content. We were talking and he said ''see, this is why it didnt work before between us, we didnt communicate." and I agreed. We were then outside the house, in the backyard. I looked to the left and there was a house being built that looked almost like a small castle towering high into the sky. I looked a little ways down and saw another house, almost the same, but it was a Asian type of castle. And thats pretty much all i remember. My main concern in my life at the moment would be that i'm wanting my boyfriend to propose to me, i want to start my life and get married. Its also coming close to mother's day and my mother passed away three years ago and ive been missing her.

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    10 years 10 months ago #2 by CC

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  • Your dream is a classic ex-boyfriend/lover dream. It doesn't mean that you should or even want to get back with your ex. The definition of an ex in a dream on this site should help explain it. Here's a link:

    dreamdoctor.com/index.php?option=com_dre...&task=details&id=726

    There's also a great video by Dream Doctor, Charles McPhee, on ex-lover dreams that you can find on the homepage in the "Listen Now!" section.

    Houses are symbols in dreams for the self. You will notice that the house in your dream is "under construction"... which is a great metaphor for how you feel about your romantic relationship... that it's "under construction"... and towering high. Here are some additional links to the key symbols in your dream:

    house: dreamdoctor.com/index.php?option=com_dre...task=details&id=1035

    castle: dreamdoctor.com/index.php?option=com_dre...&task=details&id=391

    Asian building (variation of foreign country): dreamdoctor.com/index.php?option=com_dre...&task=details&id=848

    As with any dream, play close attention to how you felt IN the dream. Feelings IN dreams are never disguised, so how you felt IN the dream is how you feel about its subject at the time you had it.

    Hope that helps!
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