First, a little bit of a background story. I'm am 20 years old and I live in British Columbia. I met my boyfriend on a cruise in Alaska. He is from England. He lives there and had recently made the decision to come and live out here for a while to give us a chance. He was planning on staying for at least 6 months, but 6 weeks into his stay here, his family called him and booked him a flight home saying he had to come home and help them with the family business.

Around the time I found out he was going back I had a dream that he was cheating on me with my 16 year old sister. They were just kissing and when I confronted him about it in the dream, he acted like it wasn't a big deal. He's back in England now and starting to make plans for me to go and live there with him and his family. Last night I had another dream, that my whole family was there (I have 2 sisters, 3 brothers), we were all in this big room with tons of other people I didn't know, my boyfriend was there, standing away from me. Then my father points out that he's kissing my older sister. And when I look at him he looks up at me, while kissing her, and gives me a look as if to say, "what did you expect?", as if it all made complete sense. I don't remember being angry in the dreams, I just remember not being able to really understand, I was in shock.

I know with him leaving the cheating is probably linked to the abandonment and hurt I'm feeling from that, but I have no idea what my sisters have to do with it.

If anyone has any insight it would be much appreciated!! Thank you!!!

Interesting dreams!

Given the waking life background you included, your sisters in the dream would seem to symbolize HIS family business. Why your sisters as opposed to his sisters or an English woman? You may not have met his sisters, assuming he has any... and an English woman does not suggest the "family" aspect of the business. Because dreams are expressions of our feelings about our waking life at the time of the dream, the fact that he is "cheating on" you with family (albeit your sisters) makes sense. It's logical that you felt as if he "cheated on" your relationship when he returned home to fulfill his family's desire at your emotional expense.

Your second dream seems to reflect your concern that his family commitments/attachments (again represented by a sister of yours) will still be a factor when you visit him. It brings up those same feelings that he'll "cheat on" you with them (or the family business) when you are there. That doesn't mean it will happen, only that subconsciously you feel that it could.

Here are links to the definition of being "cheated on" in a dream on this site: dreamdoctor.com/dream-dictionary/definitions/cheated-on.html

This dream reveals your insecurity about his commitment to you and your relationship. Is his family more important to him than you? The feeling of being cheated on is not fun, whether in a dream or in real life. The question you need to know is... will he be distracted by (cheating) his family or the family business or are you being overly sensitive? Ask him what to expect if you go or let him know what you expect. Assuming he lives up to your expectations, these dreams should go away.

Hope that helps!