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11 years 11 months ago #1 by xjennalynnx27

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  • i was on my front lawn at night with my boyfriend when he came out of the house next to mine and said "you will never believe who is there." he continued to tell me that it was a girl by the name of Courtney.(who had in reality tried to be with my boyfriend ever since we met 3 years ago. i had caught them conversing many times in the past). anyway i ran toward the house where she was visiting. i started yelling " im going to kick her ass!" my boyfriend then grabbed my arm to prevent me from getting to her, knowing i wanted to fight. this happened twice before she came outside and i proceeded to physically fist fight her. the dream ended abruptly with me and her wrestling around on the grass fighting and i on top of her beating her up.and then me and my boyfriend walking into the house and he said this was about the naked photos wasn't it. i didn't say anything just brushed it off and walked inside. odd because in my waking life i never knew anything about either of them sending or receiving naked photos to or from each other. i always thought there was more going on between them then i actually had discovered.the whole time this has been going on i have only confronted my boyfriend about some of the issues about him and her,there is many more i brushed off.the odd thing is i had the dream last night and i seen the girl today outside the liquor store she works at when my boyfriend when into get beer. its strange because she only lives not even 1 quarter mile from me and i haven't seen her in months maybe even over a year. until the day after i dream about her! i didn't confront her but i know she seen me in my car but just looked away. the thought of her breaking up my family used to haunt me because we have a baby girl together and she still proceeded to try and become romantically physically and basically have them become a couple. until recently i came to terms that she is not a threat anymore. now out of no where this dream! what does it mean? :unsure:

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    11 years 11 months ago - 6 months 1 week ago #2 by Stella

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  • Dreams are symbolic expressions of your feelings about your waking life. This dream is about your current feelings about your relationship with your boyfriend. It reflects your subconscious feelings that your relationship may be vulnerable. Your mind conjured her up in the dream not only because you just saw her, but because she represented a "threat" in the past. She merely symbolizes that as you acknowledged ("she's not a threat anymore.")

    Your dream is a variation of a "cheated on" dream. Here's a link to the definition of that symbol: dreamdoctor.com/dream-dictionary/definitions/cheated-on.html Of course, the thought of someone/thing taking him away from you makes you angry and you take it out on her in the dream. But, again, she is merely symbolic of "the threat."

    Here's a link to the definition of hitting in a dream: dreamdoctor.com/dream-dictionary/definitions/hitting.html The memory of what happened makes you angry. On some level, you feel vulnerable to someone or something stealing your boyfriend's attention. She symbolizes that to you. It could be other people or things at play, such as work, money or hobbies.

    The message of the dream... find ways to strengthen your relationship with your boyfriend. Once you feel safe (as opposed to vulnerable), the "other woman" and her memory will disappear.

    Good luck!

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    11 years 11 months ago #3 by xjennalynnx27

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  • Replied by xjennalynnx27 on topic Re: fighting the other woman. please help need advice.
    thanks for your advice i think your completly right even tho im no longer concerned with her no matter what some how in my mind she will always pose some sort of threat. the odd thing is tho that i seen her the day AFTER i had the dream. just by chance you think?

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    11 years 11 months ago #4 by Stella

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  • Probably not by chance. But, don't be tempted to go to think it was a psychic phenomenon or beamed down to you from an astral plane. Sometimes just seeing a picture of someone who has an emotional charge for you, hearing their name or awareness of an anniversary can plant a seed that grows into a full emotional experience in your dreams later that night.

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