Be warned, this dream is quite explicit and descriptive. The contents are contained in the spoiler so that those who do not wish to read it may avoid it.

A few notes:

- I am an 18 year old virgin female, with a boyfriend whose a bit shy with things.
- The character in the dream I normally do not find sexually attractive (I'm not one of those ridiculous people who thinks they're "dating a fictional character" or anything like that). I like him but not in an "attractive" way in most circumstances.

Anyways... so here we go.

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When I woke up the following morning from this dream I felt very refreshed and well alert. The dream was very detailed and has had me thinking ever since what its meaning could be. I've also had a very strong craving for massages, lol.

The definition of sex in a dream on this site lays it all out there for you (please excuse the pun.) Here's a link...

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Given the waking life context and background of your dream, the second paragraph would seem to apply. Your sense that you know this "fictional person" in waking life is meaningful. If you sense that something or someone in a dream is someone or something you know in waking life, it often is. Even though your subconscious mind puts its own spin on people and things you know well, trust your instincts.

Be sure to check out the "Related Dreams" below the symbol definition. They are good illustrations of how sex in dreams works and what such dreams tell you about your desires, curiosity and connection to the special someone in your life.

Hope that helps! Good luck!

PS Thanks for the advisory.

Soo uhh I don't really know how to start this because I feel quite uncomfortable about "sex", but I felt very wrird if I don't get this out of my chest. Well just a note : It's sexually detailed so don't read if you don't like

The dream started off really weird, I was basically laying naked on the floor in a room and I don't know why honestly but I presumed I was feeling horny (??), then my boyfriend who is also the fictional character drop by to visit me and my mother told him about what is going on with me. He then told my mother not to worry and that he'll solve it with me and opened the door seeing me on the floor, I didn't really react I just laid there and looked at him. He closed the door behind him and started walking towards me, he looked at me naked and started rubbing my clit. It was then I started to feel really horny and started moaning. He started removing his clothes and we're both nude now, with him on top of me. We started making out and eventually we had sex with one another, it wasn't very detailed but I know that he inserted it in me and yea we pretty much had sex that day.

My parents knew about it and they didn't say anything, which my in real life problems would definitely have murdered me. They believed that I wouldn't get myself pregnant and it's just all for pleasure. After the sexual intercourse, we both sat up looking at each other ( still naked ), and he told me he was surprised that I was so willingly to let him touch my body and even do it with him because as his girlfriend I was pretty uncomfortable about having sex with him even though he brought it up before. He said he was grateful for this surprise and that he would surprise me next week too ( with another sex but he said it would be more intense ) and I just nodded my head.

Out of the blue, I started getting sexually abused by him and I didn't say anything, I didn't feel good after every sex we had and was quite insecure myself. My friends found out about it and they told me to stand up for myself, so eventually I texted my boyfriend telling him that I do not want to have sex with him anymore. He was pretty mad and he didn't understand why I was feeling this way after all we have already done it so many times.

I thought I was going to lose him so I wanted to give in and told him that I guess once a month would be fine ( Because apparently we did it every week lol ) but my friends stopped me and said they didn't understand why all this happened because he was such a loving boyfriend and he once said he wouldn't know what to do if he loses me.

Well, we fought and I guess my dream just ended there. I still feel very uncomfortable and this weird feeling wouldn't go away so I'm kinda asking for any advice to stop this??? Like I have been having multiple dreams about sex with fictional characters.

Hi Ruby!
Dreams are windows into our souls.  Its been my experience that rarely do the surface level action of the dream have much to do with the underlying message to ourself.  

I'll provide an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.  Before doing so, I want to tell you it was brave of you to post your dream.  In today's world, it takes courage to face oneself.  Way to go Ruby!  

On with the dream,,,

Before I begin I want to note that we are the producers, writers, director and main actors in our dream.  Nothing is in our dreams by accident, including the other characters, location, etc.  

When I interpret a dream, the first thing I consider is the location.  i could have created the dream in any reality, at any time and yet, in this dream I am on a floor in a room.  Why here?

I've learnt from my dreams that rooms are symbols of inner beliefs we have.  Before we incarnate, we carefully select our personality.  We do this be selecting about 200 different "consciousness filters" what my guides have told me to call "belief filters".  They filter out most of our greater reality, causing us to forget who we really are, i.e. the greater I.  These filters then cause our thoughts and feelings.

Each belief has two polarities.  My guides tell me to call them masculine and feminine.  We then select the degree of polarity.  This then creates energy vibrations, i.e. our auras, which change each moment.

The beliefs work together.  Some of them, working together, with masculine polarities, are symbolized in our dreams by rooms.  Each wall, ceiling and floor are symbols of a belief.  They work together essentially blocking off a view to our greater self, i.e. outside the walls.

So, there I am lying on the floor in a room.  Right away, I realize I'm in what I call a belief compartment, restricting my ability to see my greater self.

Next, I move on to myself,  I am lying down.  I've found in my dreams that when I'm lying down, it's a way of showing my I'm not yet ready to stand on my own two spiritual feet to see the effects of the beliefs.  Thus, I realize I have a long ways to go, as I do the spiritual heavy lifting to address the beliefs.

Note:  I've found, if I choose to listen to my dreams and work on myself, that slowly the walls, ceiling and floor disappear.  I know I've completed it when I fly over the area and nothing is there.  

I then consider myself.  I'm naked.  This is very good.  Why?  

In my dreams, when I or others are wearing clothes, these are symbols of yet more masculine polarity beliefs we spiritually wear.  The colour of the clothes also indicate where the beliefs are effecting our etheric chakra and nadi points.

Given this, I'm happy to reality I am naked.  It's a way of letting myself know I have been making spiritual progress,  I must now focus on what the room walls are symbols of.

I am feeling horny.  This is one of what I call the "surface level" effects of the beliefs.  They have to do with my ideas of myself relating to sex.  This ins't meant as good or bard or right or wrong.  I'm going to be addressing inner beliefs resulting in my surface level beliefs about myself.

Next I address the other two characters; my mom and my boyfriend.  Are they them or, are they symbols of myself?  They're them.  

Note:  How do I know this?  I've learnt to use my higher self to assist me in interpretations.  Anyone can do this if they put in the effort.  It requires meditation to access one's higher self.  So Ruby, you too can do this.  Go to my website learningfrommydreams.com and read the meditation section.  Find one that works for you and do it!!!!!

Why are they in my dream scene?  Because they too share the same underlying beliefs I do. They too, are working on them spiritually (which might not seem apparent on the surface).  

My mother tells my  boyfriend I am horny.  What i suspect happens is that she is telling him I'm dealing with my underlying beliefs affecting my sexuality.  My belief filters interpret this as my mom telling my boyfriend I am horny, i.e. I am literally interpreting my dream while in it.  

My boyfriend agrees to work with me.  I interpret this as he will help me out, i.e. inferring sex,

He then enters the belief compartment. He has clothes on, i.e. he's wearing spiritual beliefs he needs to address.  Thus, I am a little further ahead than him, only with respect to the beliefs the room is a symbol of, i.e. I'm naked and he's not.

He then stimulates me by rubbing my clit.  I am letting myself know I enjoy sexual stimulation.  Yet, underneath, I am literally interpreting the dream.  It's all about physical sex.  

We then have intercourse.  

"My parents knew about it and they didn't say anything, which my in real life problems would definitely have murdered me. They believed that I wouldn't get myself pregnant and it's just all for pleasure."

This is my dream about myself.  My parents are part of my dream scene BUT they're not the same as my parent's in real life.  My parents in real life have somewhat rigid ideas about sex, which relates to me.  

The message I'm sending myself is it's okay to have sex.  i won't get pregnant from dream sex.  I need to dive deeper to understand what the dream is telling me.

"After the sexual intercourse, we both sat up looking at each other ( still naked ), and he told me he was surprised that I was so willingly to let him touch my body and even do it with him because as his girlfriend I was pretty uncomfortable about having sex with him even though he brought it up before. He said he was grateful for this surprise and that he would surprise me next week too ( with another sex but he said it would be more intense ) and I just nodded my head."

My boyfriend is literally interpreting the dream as I am.  He's surprised we had sex and wants more.  My own views about sex restrict me in real life from enjoying myself.

And now we come to the heart of the dream...

"Out of the blue, I started getting sexually abused by him and I didn't say anything, I didn't feel good after every sex we had and was quite insecure myself. My friends found out about it and they told me to stand up for myself, so eventually I texted my boyfriend telling him that I do not want to have sex with him anymore. He was pretty mad and he didn't understand why I was feeling this way after all we have already done it so many times."

It's my dream about myself.  I am worried about being sexually abused.  It's likely, in other lives, I have been abused.  It's also likely in other lives, I have been the abuser.  In this life, I am finally addressing it.  That's the good news.

I also suspect, in other lives my boyfriend was sometimes my abuser.  It doesn't mean in this life he will.  That's for him and me to figure out.

My friends find out about the abuse.  These are both physical and spiritual friends.  We often incarnate together many, many, many times, playing different roles. They are letting myself know to do something about it.  

so what do I do?  I text my boyfriend.  In my dreams, when I am using technology to spiritually communicate, it's a symbol of yet more masculine based beliefs I am using which preclude my ability to spiritually communicate with others. 

That's one of the  main lessons of the dream. It's also why my dream began with me lying on the floor.  However, I miss the point, literally interpreting my dream.

"I thought I was going to lose him so I wanted to give in and told him that I guess once a month would be fine ( Because apparently we did it every week lol ) but my friends stopped me and said they didn't understand why all this happened because he was such a loving boyfriend and he once said he wouldn't know what to do if he loses me."

I am interpreting my life through sex.  It isn't right or wrong or goo or bad.  It simply is the way it is.  i need to learn to listen to myself and address the underlying beliefs that restrict my ability to spiritually see my greater self.  If and when i do, sex will simply be a part of me and not the main driver in my life.

"Well, we fought and I guess my dream just ended there. I still feel very uncomfortable and this weird feeling wouldn't go away so I'm kinda asking for any advice to stop this???"

I am fighting myself.  I need to address the underlying beliefs the room is a symbol of.  I want to avoid this which is why I want the feelings to stop.  I'm sitting here laughing at myself as I write this.  Why?  It's me who's creating the dream, the lessons and the feelings. It's me who doesn't want to learn to listen to myself!!!!!

Ruby, take heart.  This is a great dream.  It's about you deciding if you want to learn to listen to yourself.  If you do, you'll be a different person and lead a different life than if you don't.  

I hope some of what I said resonates deep within you.

With kind regards,
Guy