I have recently had strange infidelity dreams. Although I can’t specifically pin point the beginning...but I seem to be encouraging my husband to sleep with other women? And in one of my dreams he sleeps with 7 women at one time. One of the women who participates comes to me to basically tell me thank you, and that it’s awesome I’m so cool with it. But she tells me details that are absolutely gut wrenching. Like how he went down on all the women (something he abruptly stopped doing to me close to a year ago), and how several of them women went down on him. Which is something I really enjoy doing to him, and feel is sacred. And she tells me just about how much he enjoyed it, And was really into it and how hard his penis was. Which going soft with me is something we have had issues with. We have been married for 12 years and we are happy/healthy. Lots of love and laughter in the relationship. Sex, 3-4 times a week. But lately I just haven’t felt like he’s just going through the motions. That he doesn’t really lust after me for lack of a better term. Maybe that he’s bored with me. I don’t know. But I need help understand this and moving forward
