Hiya!
A dream full of learning! I'll interpret your dream as if it was mine.
Before I get going, I have some things to tell you....
Many, but not all people in my dreams are often "other lives". These are lives I incarnate.
A inner belief has two polarities, a masculine and a feminine. We select the degree of polarity. These are deep inner beliefs we select, before we incarnate, to filter out the greater reality we come from. We select approximately 200 of them. They actively work together, each second, filtering our reality.
Rooms are symbols of what I've come to learn are masculine based belief symbols. These are deep inner beliefs we select, before we incarnate, to filter out the greater reality we come from. Each wall, ceiling and floor, are symbols of beliefs we use, working together, to filter out our ability to see our feminine, i.e. outside the walls.
The size of the room is important. Why? A large room, indicates I like the beliefs. As I work on the beliefs, I find the room size shrinking. Then walls et al begin to disappear. I realize I've dealt with the beliefs when I am flying over where they used to be and now can see nothing.
Finally, I've also learnt we are the producers, director, script writer and main actor in our dreams. Nothing is there by accident. It's like a gigantic symphony playing, where sadly, most of us can't even hear the music, let alone identify the instruments and score used to create it.
So, given all of the above, here's my interpretation of your dream as if it was mine...
"So, I had a dream where I was supposed to be getting married. The place was out of the usual for my tastes. It was really elegant and grand."
Marriage is a symbol of a union between people. I've found in interpreting the dreams of many others, it's often used as a way to symbolize our relationship with our other selves. We are a part of them and, they are a part of us, yet we are independent at the same "time."
I'm in a large masculine based belief compartment, i.e. the room. My inner beliefs the room is a symbol of result in surface level beliefs about power, status, etc. They are what I've come to collectively call "command control" beliefs.
They produce a person who's either a controller or, a controlee. In many, many of my other lives, I've played both roles. So, in this life, even if on the surface I don't like pomp, etc., deep inside I have the inner beliefs driving me. This is were dreams are so powerful. We draw out from deep inside ourselves, the ability to look at who we are deep inside.
"My groom seemed to be a grown man (18). He was someone I’ve never met before. In the dream, I looked at him and my heart started beating hard and I started crying from how “handsome” he was. " He's another life of mine.
I've learnt that the age of people in my dreams is also important. It's a way of sending myself a message about how far along I am in dealing with the beliefs. A young child indicates I am just beginning addressing them, while a very old person indicates I am nearing the end of using the beliefs.
So, there I am looking at one of my other lives, who is a young person. That's why the room is the way it is. I like the beliefs.
The inner beliefs the room is a symbol of also produce emotional effects. I am smitten with myself!!!!!! Thus, I am using what other people think i should be, in order to judge myself.
"I'm talking to my best friend (someone I’ve also never met before) about my doubts about getting married. I told her about how I couldn’t go back to highschool married never able to experience the teenage experience and have fun (like flirt and stuff)."
My best friend is another life, that I communicate with frequently to assist me and I her. It's great I'm finally becoming aware of her!!!!!!!
I am literally interpreting my dream, thinking I am getting married and it's not what I should be doing.
"I was also thinking to myself that I also had feeling for someone else (who I do have feeling for in waking life – not dating) and couldn’t marry him knowing that I liked the other person. Then he was apparently behind us (the groom) and was yelling saying that we shouldn’t get married since I thought age and stuff was a problem. "
The person who I like also shares the same beliefs I do, that the room is a symbol of. He too, like me, isn't aware of the beliefs and is also literally interpreting the dream scene.
"But for whatever reason I shouted back that I loved him and that I wanted to get married (even though I knew I didn’t – it was more of a spontaneous outburst)."
I'm letting myself know that I am married to my other lives. Yet, at the same time, I "know" I'm not.
"So the wedding gets cancelled, but my aunt shouts the wedding is back on out of no where then everything is fine until the place gets bombed up.'
Since I'm not yet spiritually able to digest all of this, the "wedding" is cancelled.
My aunt, who shares the same underlying beliefs I do, comes to remind me I need to understand the real message of my dream about myself and my other lives.
Since I'm still not ready to deal with this, the belief structure is bombed. A symbol of surface level effects of the command/control beliefs I am using.
If what I've said resonates deep within you, I suggest you read some books Jane Robert's wrote about Oversoul Seven. This will help you understand about other lives.
As well, you might also want to read "Your Soul's Pan" by Robert Schwartz.
Finally, you might also want to read some of Robert Monroe's books and possibly take a course from the Monroe Institute.
With kind regards,
Guy
