Hi,
My view on dreams is different than many others. I believe we are the producers, creators, directors, script writers and most often the main actors in our dreams. If you agree with this, then the first question is, why are you using your dead dear husband this way?
By using him acting as not him in real life, it's a way for you to recall the dream upon waking and work on it. it worked!
Next, how does one know who's who in the dream? I have learnt to use my higher self, via meditation, to assist me. You can too, if you have sustained intent to do it.
In many of my dreams, my wife appears. Sometimes she's herself and other times, she's a symbol of my feminine. If this was my dream, I'd interpret my husband as a symbol of my masculine.
Next, I'd ponder why I think my masculine is threatening? This dream is all about me.
The first clue is the suit he's wearing. in my dreams, when people are wearing suits, they're symbols of what I call "command control" beliefs I spiritually wear. I am literally interpreting the dream while in it, missing the point. I'm pointing out to myself I now no longer like using masculine based command/control beliefs.
Next, is the beloved ring. A ring is a symbol of merging masculine and feminine. I am now learning it's "time" to awaken myself to addressing the imbalances within myself, i.e. I've lost it and now found it.
And what does my masculine say? I am telling myself I am irresponsible! My masculine side doesn't trust my feminine. My reaction? I am hurt. I am spiritually hurt projecting out my disbelief of my masculine and feminine onto my masculine self, i.e. my husband.
If this was my dream, I would meditate on my masculine and the underlying beliefs that are no no longer working for me.
Hope this helps you.
Guy
