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best friend confusion-is it more

11 years 7 months ago #1 by babyD85

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    okay i've been having dreams about my best friend (which is a guy) for a couple weeks now. and the thing is they are not just regular dreams, they are sex dreams. i dont know what to think about it. like does it mean i want more from our friendship or does it mean something completely opposite of that. well here's my dream

    i was hanging out with my best guy friend and he told me to go with him even though he was not supposed to bring females to his friends house. so we kinda snuck in and hung out. while we hanging out, one thing led to another and by the time i knew what was happening, we were having sex. while this was going on, we heard someone open the front door and to our surprise it was his friends girlfriend and her friend. my friend jumped up and freaked out, then told me " you have to go now." without explanation, i tried to find another way out, but to my luck there was no other way out. so i kinda had to walk to walk of shame. but even though i never thought about him in that view, i was actually somewhat happy that it happened.

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    11 years 7 months ago #2 by pammap

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    Having sex in a dream is often symbolic. Here's a link to its definition on this site: dreamdoctor.com/dream-dictionary/definitions/having-sex.html

    Your dreams are expressions of your feelings about your waking life at the time you had it. If you do have genuine sexual feeling about your best guy friend, your dream reminds you that it may not be best choice for him and you, in that he ejects you and you do the "walk of shame." Feelings in dreams are never disguised, so how you feel IN the dream is how you feel about its subject in waking life. The fact that you feel guilty for having "gone physical" with your best guy friend lets you know that it's a line you probably shouldn't cross or wouldn't ultimately feel good about.

    That being said, keep paying attention to your dreams, because if there is something there that you want to pursue (deep down), it will continue to urge you in that direction. Then, when you awake, it's up to you both.

    Good luck!

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