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12 years 3 months ago #1 by foreverdreaming

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  • Im so confused. Why did I dream this? was created by foreverdreaming
    I have a Fiance and am currently living with him but I had a dream the other night about a teacher I had in high school and we are now friends and we talk/have lunch when I come back into town.

    In my dream though I go and have lunch with him, like normal, but then things turned and we start making out then ended up having intercourse in his classroom.

    I have never thought of him as physically attractive like that or anything. I truly love my Fiance but I have never had a dream like this before and it felt as if it really happened.

    Can anyone offer any advice on why I had this and what it could mean?

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    12 years 3 months ago - 12 years 3 months ago #2 by Stella

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  • Replied by Stella on topic Re: Im so confused. Why did I dream this?
    Yours is a classic "cheating" dream, which is often misunderstood. There are many excellent examples of and explanations for cheating dreams on this site, especially in the romance dreams section: dreamdoctor.com/common-dreams-their-mean.../dreams-romance.html

    First, here's a link to its definition in the dream dictionary: dreamdoctor.com/dream-dictionary/definitions/cheating.html There's also a related explanation in the "Listen Now!" section of the homepage titled: "meaning of: ex-lover (video)"

    Your "cheating" is not about a desire for that person, but for certain qualities that that person has, qualities that you miss or want in your fiance and/or relationship. Interestingly, the person you are cheating with is a former teacher. You "lust for" for what he represents to you. Could it be his authority, knowledge, guidance and/or his tutelage in the classroom of love? :)

    Once you identify what you are missing or needing in your relationship with your fiance (personified by your former teacher), find a way to talk to him about it. Odds are he will want to know about it and even work on it. Better to address it now than to go wanting (or "cheating") during your marriage.

    Keep paying attention to your dreams. They will always let you know what's right or wrong about your life. The rest is up to you.

    Hope that helps!

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