fiance betrays me
Background information: I am currently engaged to and living with the man I have been with for a little over three years. We are expecting our first child. In my dream, I left my fiancé at his best friend’s house. I went to go do something for my parents who live three hours away. I […]
boyfriend is a werewolf
As my dream starts I am looking at an apartment alone. The apartment is halfway underground, and the windows that are above ground have bars on them. Also, there is no door. I bring my boyfriend to look at it with me. We decide to take the apartment, and then it comes about that whenever […]
ticks
Hi Shari – Thanks for writing. It sounds as though your dream may be representing your “upset” at the news of your relative becoming pregnant metaphorically. That is to say – would you consider that the stick in your dream might represent a phallus – and the ticks that were trying to get into your […]
the vagina monologues
Hi Martina— It’s an extraordinary dream, and I’m glad you wrote in to understand its meaning. The symbolism of being naked in a fetal position with your vagina sewn is that you feel unable to express your essential nature. Translation? Your relationship with your boyfriend is making you feel like a child—exposed and […]
ladder of romance
Background: I am 29 and have been in a relationship for six years. I very much want to get married and begin planning for a family. My boyfriend is, should I say, hesitant about marriage (engagement, kids, money, etc.) We have lived together for almost two years. In a long and confusing dream, I was […]
can’t say your name
I am a Filipina currently in (cyber)love with a Hollander. We have known each other since January 1998 (through a chatroom) and we have been officially “going steady” for about 2 months now. We have plans of seeing each other next year. Anyway, his most recent mail to me included a dream he had and […]
roadside attraction
When I came in to work this morning a female coworker told me that she had a dream about me. Here is how she described it. “We were riding bicycles down a road. I was in front of you, then you passed me and got in front of me. All of a sudden you swerved […]
the other woman
Hi Laura— If he still “loves” you, he sure does have a strange way of showing it! Given the background you’ve provided, I think you may be better off keeping your eyes open (rather than closed and dreaming), as you try to make a decision about this man! Do you find it significant that there […]
at the office…
I recently had a dream about a guy that I work with. I think he’s nice and talented, but I don’t think that I like him in a romantic way, we’re more like friends. My dream was that we were at work, and I think our boss was speaking to us, there were a lot […]
the affair
Dear Dazed and Confused – Hey! Don’t worry so much about your dream! After all it’s just a dream, right? 🙂 Sometimes dreams reflect back to us feelings that we are experiencing in ways that we aren’t entirely comfortable with. For example, people often dream about friends who are very close to them or family […]
kissing my co-worker
I had this dream about a guy at work. We work close together and get along real fine. I dream that we have a few beers together after work and that we are by our cars in the parking lot and chatting friendly enough and the feeling I get is we don’t want to leave […]
pregnancy test
My boyfriend and I were driving in a familiar area around my neighborhood where I live. We parked and decided to watch a movie. We got into the building, but the elevators weren’t working. Instead of waiting for the elevators, we walked up the stairs to the 6th floor and played a game of pool. […]