man next door…
I am having consistent dreams about a man who lives around the corner from me. I have never formally met this man. He and his roommate are attractive, but I am married with children. Every dream is different, but I am always at his house and it usually ends with him walking me home or […]
married to my co-worker
Hi Angel Eyes – Isn’t it clear from your dream what is going on? You are dreaming of having an affair – or of getting divorced and trying a new relationship with this man – and apparently so is he. Your dream is reflecting many desires that – we infer – are not […]
intellectual high
I keep having this dream that I am talking very deeply, on a high intellectual level, with this guy that I have just noticed a few weeks ago. There is a small hint of sexuality in the dream, but never any action. We are just talking for hours. Then I wake up. I really enjoy […]
jealous ex-boyfriend!
Dear Nervous – Unfortunately you have good reason to be nervous. You were correct in removing yourself from this relationship and also in pursuing your policy of not wanting to speak with this person again. He obviously can not part graciously from your relationship and allow you – or himself – to move on to […]
wedding bells
I am 26 years old and engaged to be married in approximately 1 month. I live with my fiancé, and am very much in love with him. I am excited about our new life together, although I have been feeling nervous and anxious about the wedding day. I am mostly concerned about the details of […]
wedding jitters
Right before I got married I started having dreams about other guys — two of them. One was my honey’s brother, who is engaged to a really good friend of mine, and I would never do that to my friend or my man. The other was about an old flame of mine that I was […]
in-laws
Hi Jobelle – Sounds like you like this guy (who you fancy) and would like to be a part of his family. What do you think? It’s an important part of any relationship, how you get on with your lover’s parents. Hopefully it’s a good mix and you like the parents and they […]
i’m sleep-talking!
Dear Kathleen – It sounds like you may be experiencing a bit of what is known as “REM Behavior Disorder.” When we dream at night, the body works fairly hard to prevent us from “acting out our dreams.” Thus, our muscle tone is inhibited so that we can’t stand up and walk around – (or […]
about to die
Hi Helen— Medical examinations in dreams represent feelings that we are being “scrutinized” and “evaluated” very closely. In light of your daughter’s current romantic plight (she is being evaluated by her boyfriend to see if she is suitable for a long-term romantic relationship), the team of doctors most likely reflects your daughter’s feelings that she […]
husband leaves me
Hi Vivian – You write that your relationship with your husband is strong and happy and that you have a high level of trust with each other. In this type of scenario, your occasional dreams appear to be simple “fear” dreams – you are afraid of losing that good relationship. Everyone who is in a […]
at the office…
Dear Raven – I think you may have already solved your dream. You may not be sure of this guy’s attention for you (you say he is nice to everyone) but you also say that you may be afraid of being rejected – which is a fear we all face when we become interested in […]
boyfriend’s house
I just broke up with a guy that I was dating for 7 months. I have had the same dream twice (once while we were together, and once since we broke up). In the dream, I am at his house. He is never there. He is out with friends. I look around, but I know […]