I am a 36 year old gay man and just entered a new relationship about 2 weeks ago. This is the first real (emotional) relationship that I’ve had in 15 years. (I’ve had short-term relationships but none that I’ve been this excited about). We have both decided that we will be monogamous.
Last night I had three separate dreams where I was approached by a man who wanted sex. They were different men in each dream. In one dream I had sex. In the other two, I abstained. Does this mean I am having a fear of commitment? Or is this a “slip” dream where I am trying to get used to the idea?
Since we’ve pledged monogamy, I seem to be attracted to more and more people. What does it mean?
--Anonymous, Age 36, New York, NY, USA