I have this guy friend who has been my best friend for about 8 years now and we even went out for a short time in high school. After high school we both married and went our separate ways but we have always remained close and kept in touch despite the fact that we are both married. Well lately I have been having dreams about us being together and being intimate. All these dreams include us being together whether it be shopping or hanging out and they all end up with us kissing and having sex and some of them seem so real that they linger in my mind when I wake up. I feel weird and guilty dreaming about him when we are both married but the stranger part is that he has had some of these dreams too. Can you please tell me why I am having such detailed and intimate dreams about him?
--Anonymous, San Diego, CA, USA